– September 28 2020
Healing the pain of displaced women and children in Somalia
Halima Ahmed Dalel, a nurse at the SOS Children’s Village Mother and Child Clinic in Somalia, tells her story of helping displaced women and children.
For five years, Halima has worked as a nurse at the SOS Children’s Village Mother and Child Clinic in Somalia. Her patients are the internally displaced women and children who live in the ten IDP camps that surround the clinic, which are home to about 60,000 people. Halima says the terrible suffering she's witnessed breaks her heart, but she remains motivated by the difference she makes in the lives of families.
Tell us about your work?
Women and children living in the IDP community are at the heart of what I do. These families have lost everything and have come to seek refuge from floods, drought or conflict. They are vulnerable, impoverished and in need of healthcare. I aim to work until every child and mother is healthy. I am a mother of one child and I see her in the 15 or more children I see every day. It is my duty and responsibility to alleviate their pain as much as I can.
My work comes in different shapes and forms. For example, I receive calls to support mothers delivering in their IDP homes who cannot reach the health facility because of extensive bleeding. The situation can be life threatening to both the baby and the mother. At times, I ask a doctor from the clinic to accompany me to ensure quality care in this delicate situation. I then personally follow up with these cases until the mother and child are stable.
I distribute delivery kits to expectant mothers in the camp to avoid such emergency situations. In the kit is a plastic bag, towel, and oil for the baby, disinfectant for the mother, two pairs of gloves, a razor blade and cod clam for the umbilical cord. With these items, the mother can safely give birth to her baby at home with help from any available health worker.
I also counsel mothers and women experiencing violent relationships at home. A husband will beat his wife for visiting the health center without his approval. The woman comes to me with bruises on her face. I calm her down and listen attentively to her grievances. I refer tough situations to a local organization dealing with gender-based violence where women receive legal redress and more counseling.
What are some challenging situation you have handled?
I've handle numerous difficult cases. A mother who had given birth at home without any assistance recently came to me. She was still bleeding and her small baby was shivering from lack of warm clothes. The mother did not have food in her house and she was hungry. She had relocated to the camp only a few days ago from another region in Somalia because of drought and famine. I get so emotional when I receive such desperate cases. I left the room to compose myself since I did not want to show my emotions to the mother. I came back to her after a few minutes. I treated her and referred her to the maternal and child health and nutrition program to receive food.
Another mother came to the health center with a sick child suffering from malnutrition. The mother was heavily pregnant and she was experiencing hardship in the family because of poverty. The child had other complications like vomiting, diarrhea and high temperature. I referred the case to another medical facility where the child was admitted to receive proper medication and nutrition supplements. My goal is to safeguard and preserve the life of every child in my care.
Are there any threats to your work?
I receive threats from husbands who do not approve of their wives seeking medical assistance. I take time to explain to them the importance of health and nutrition to the mother and the baby. After a long explanation, they agree that she continues with treatment. Not all husbands behave like that though, only a few from the rural areas who have never seen or accessed a health facility.
What motivates you to keep working in this environment?
I am content working in the tough conditions of the IDP settlement because I learn new ways of handling crisis and emergency cases all the time. There is no better reward than seeing the results of my work from directly helping vulnerable people in dire need of assistance. I am satisfied and motivated when I see sick children gain strength and healthy mothers taking care of their children, even under very tough conditions. I am strong for the families I work with.
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